Tisha B'Av Preparation - The Destruction of the Temples

One of the most solemn days in the Jewish calendar is Tisha B'Av, the ninth day of the Hebrew month of Av. The day commemorates the destruction of both the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem. It also highlights the other tragedies the Jewish people have faced. 

The first and second temples

The first temple, as built by King Solomon, was destroyed by the Babylonians under Nebuchadnezzar in 586 BCE. This led the Jews to exile to Babylon and marked the end of the First Commonwealth period.

The second temple was built roughly five centuries later, in 70 CE, and the Romans destroyed it. The result was the dispersing of the Jews throughout the Roman empire for nearly two thousand years. It was a tragic event that led to the loss of national sovereignty for the Jewish people.

How to prepare for Tisha B'Av

The Fast of the 17th of Tammuz is a three week period that leads up to the period leading up to Tisha B'Av. These three weeks are referred to as "Bein HaMetzarim" or "Between the Straits". During these three weeks, Jews refrain from getting their hair cut, live concerts, and weddings.

The first nine days of Av intensify the mourning practices. Jews typically abstain from eating meat, doing laundry, drinking wine, or anything that involves pleasure. 

On the eve of Tisha B'Av a final meal is eaten called the "Seudah Mafseket" before the fast. Usually, the mean consists of hard-boiled eggs, bread, and ashes, symbolizing mourning.

Restrictions and fasting during this time

You are not allowed to wear leather shoes during this time. You’re not allowed to bathe or wash unless it’s for hygienic reasons. You can’t use perfumes or lotions, and you’re not allowed to study the Torah unless it’s about mourning. There is also a 25-hour fast time during this time. 

Synagogue services and the gradual easing of restrictions

The synagogue is somber, and the ark's curtain is removed. Everyone sits on low stools or the floor. The Book of Lamentations is read, followed by a kinot that recounts the destruction and other tragedies. 

As the day progresses, some of the restrictions will be lifted. People are allowed to sit on chairs also; in some communities, men don tallit and tefillin for the afternoon prayers.

The coming of the Messiah

It is believed that during this day in the future, the Messiah will return. It is a message of hope and redemption for all. It is a day for all Jewish people to reflect on the pain and suffering they have endured as a people. The return of the messiah will bring comfort and the ultimate redemption.

The pain and suffering endured by the people will not go in vain. The Messiah will return and transform Tisha B'Av from a day of mourning into one of joy. A day promised, yet delivered, but one day will come when mourning will turn into celebration and hope fulfilled. It’s a reminder to all that even in times of great sorrow, there is the promise of future redemption.

Wishing you a meaningful and blessed day!

See you in my next message,

Tohar Liani