Yom Kippur Preparation - The Day of Atonement
- Tohar Liani
- Mar 17
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 18
Yom Kippur, known as the Day of Atonement, is considered the holiest day in the Jewish faith. Falling in the month of Tishrei on the Jewish calendar, it marks the pinnacle of the High Holy Days. Yom Kippur is observed by fasting, repentance, prayer and reconciliation - believers seek atonement from God for their sins committed over the past year.
Preparing for Yom Kippur
In the days and weeks before Yom Kippur, Jewish families thoroughly clean their homes, which holds symbolic meaning of cleansing oneself from sin. People also visit cemeteries and graves of loved ones in this period. It is also customary to bake round challah bread and prepare festive meals eaten before the obligatory 25-hour fast begins on the eve of Yom Kippur. In the days leading up to the holiday, people also purchase important ritual items like candles to light throughout the holiday, prayer books for synagogue services, and chickens if they plan to practice the kapparot ritual.
An integral part of the preparation involves making financial donations and reconciling with people you have wronged over the past year before entering Yom Kippur with a clean slate. On the eve of the holiday, people customarily wear white clothing to services and give charity one final time as the holiday commences that evening.
The Pre-Fast Meal
The ritual pre-fast meal before sunset is known as seudah mafseket. This final and usually festive meal eaten before the 25-hour fast is totally complete contains rich foods like challah bread dipped in honey, hoping for a sweet new year. Families eat this meal together, make blessings over candles and wine, and customarily wear white clothing during this meal.
Prohibitions on Yom Kippur
As part of atoning for sins on this most holy Day of Atonement, observant Jews abstain from many behaviors for the full 25 hours from several minutes before sunset until nightfall the next day. Eating or drinking any food or water is completely forbidden, even for small children and the sick since complete fasting is seen as required by God for his forgiveness. Wearing leather shoes, washing the body, applying lotions or perfumes, and marital relations are also prohibited on this solemn day. No work or heavy physical labor, using electricity, driving, or other exerting tasks are allowed.
Prayer Services and Rituals
Most of the holiday is spent at the synagogue attending repetitive prayer services led by a cantor and recitations of the Torah. An important custom involves wearing a white robe called a kittel over one's clothes, which symbolizes spiritual purity. Many married men also wear a white prayer shawl or tallit. People bring their mahzor prayer book to synagogue, which contains the long liturgy for the holiday, and read prayers along with the cantor throughout the services.
A central part of the lengthy services is the Avodah prayer. This emotional recitation remembers the sacrificial ritual worship from when the Temple stood in Jerusalem. People ask God for forgiveness while fasting and depriving themselves similar to the Biblical sacrifices.
Breaking the Fast
At sunset on the second day, Yom Kippur is officially over. The shofar ram's horn is joyously blown to signal it's time to break the fast after 24 hours of deprivation from any food or water. The ritual meal eaten to break the fast contains easy-to-digest foods like broth soups with matzo balls, bagels, and gefilte fish. People congregate for fellowship, songs and dancing feeling renewed spiritually having gained atonement from God.
Final Words
As the pinnacle of religious life on the Jewish calendar, Yom Kippur brings incredible meaning through fasting, repentance, and spiritual rebirth each year for observers. The slate is wiped clean as they look ahead to living righteous lives in the new year.
Wishing you a sacred day!
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Tohar Liani